Remember the Good Times

You’re going to need to remind both your spouse and yourself why you were together to begin with. No matter how bad your marriage has gotten, there was a point when things were good.

To save your marriage, you should try to get back to that place, and you should always keep in mind that it existed.

When you know what the problem is – fix it!

In many ways, this is the most important step.

If you can’t fix the problem, then you can’t stop your divorce. Some problems can’t be fixed, but most can. The reason most marriage ending problems don’t get solved is that they are never identified. But you’ve already done that in step one. What you need to do now is work with your spouse to make the compromises that will save your marriage.